What are common challenges with brains that communicate directly?

Being misunderstood Not knowing when others are indirect Others thinking you're rude when you're being clear

What can I try to help with brains that communicate directly?

When you are not sure if someone means what they say, try asking: "Are you being literal or is there something else you mean?" Most people will clarify, and asking is better than guessing. Create a short explanation of your communication style that you can use with new people: "I tend to say exactly what I mean and I appreciate when others do the same. If something I say sounds blunt, please know I am just being clear, not rude." If someone says you were too direct, try this response: "I am sorry if that came across harshly — I was not trying to be unkind. I communicate quite literally and sometimes miss the softer way to say things. Can you tell me how you would have said it?"

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Brains That Communicate Directly

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Some brains say things clearly and mean exactly what they say.

Brains That Need Clear Rules Brains That Get Overloaded